Complicated agreement

You know, when you are raised in all boys siblings, all cousins are mostly boys, surround by a quite number of male friends, you find yourself tend to follow their attitude a little bit. Yet, you have the advantage of no one bother about your stuff and what happened to you. So, all this while, I have developed the attitude of individualism. I can do almost everything on my own. I don't like people touch mt stuff. I like to be alone in my room. I like to watch movie alone. There was one time my brother took out and read my magazines and left them in mess. I screamed like a mad woman. YES! I'm that scary.   My principal is my stuff is my stuff. Don't you ever touch mine.

When we are married, for sure we have to share almost everything. So, we need to agree on the same things. But, as complicated as woman and man to think alike, it's complicated to agree on the same thing too. There was one time, me and my husband wanted to buy night lamp or table lamp or whatever you call it. My husband is a typical guy who doesn't like cute thing but that day he said....

Husband: Sayang, let's buy the cutest lamp.

I was excited. Cute? I was eager to choose one.

Me: Abang, this is sooooo cute. 

Husband: No, I think this one is the cutest.

Me: What??????

You know what he chose? The most dull night lamp. White and typical. There were many lamps that were so cute. Pandas, frogs and even the one the blink blink. We ended up buying that I-thing-this-is-ugly lamp.

See, it's hard to agree on the same thing. But, I still positively think this is a good sign. What if my husband like cute things more than I do? Creepy guy.

This is something we agreed on. White tv. It's rare and we both think it's very cute.