The vow

Assalamulaikum

All praise to Allah The Mighty for health, wealth and love. Alhamdulillah, I'm just currently happy with my life. Thanks Allah for your kindness when I'm in despair.And yea, I realised I haven't write anything about my wedding. Juggling between work and responsibility as a wife, I become almost careless and tired. But I'm ok most of the time because Amirul is always encouraging me to work at my pace, be patient and be relax which I always forget to. 

When I looked back at our wedding, I'm glad that I could make it simple yet memorable. Fyi, we made the preparation for the engagement a month before, and 1 month after that we got married. Sound tiring but believe me, it ran smoothly as we planned. Even though, I say it was simple, we still had everything; pelamin for the solemnization, pelamin for reception and makan beradap. We have all that, but not too much. 

I'm glad that we still could follow what is allowed and not allowed (I'm not boasting here, but we should share something right together). It's important for the bride and groom to abide by what Islam forbid us. Alhamdulillah, I did not decorate my fingers until wrist with henna (inai). Amirul did not wear henna at all. Henna is only for woman. Guys is not allowed to wear henna. Amirul did not wear necklace even our wedding outfit come with it. He didn't kiss my forehead either. He told me before we get married that he did not want kiss me in front of others and I don't want it too. Even my parents and his parents say better not to do that or anything like that. Alhamdulillah our family are understanding. 

For those who are getting married, I advice you to recite surah Yassin every morning because it will ease you in so many ways. That's what I practice before getting married until now as advised by Amirul. Insyaallah, tak akan ada ganguan hati. Ganguan perasaan. Insyaallah takde ujian tetiba tersuka kat orang lain sebab dugaan bertunang, Ya Alllahhhh sangat kuat. 

I married the best guy I ever met for my whole life after my father. I kept ( and still am) praying to Allah since I was a teenager to give me someone who is good and would be good for me. Someone pious, someone who is not a smoker, someone funny, someone sporty, someone fun. I like everything about him. Thank you Allah for granting my wish after I've waiting for so long. So long.  

Semoga kami berjaya membina keluarga Sakinah Mawaddah Warahmah. 

Doakan kami :)